Divorce can already be tough for those involved. Unfortunately COVID-19 is making it more difficult and stressful.
People are spending more times in their homes, with their families, partners, etc. It might enlighten problems between a couple, or they might already have issues in their relationship but being stuck together unable to see other people or go out could spark arguments or worse.
But how has COVID-19 impacted divorce?
The divorce rate has slightly increased since many countries have gone into lockdown from COVID-19. Since the breakout began, according to Ellisons Solicitors, it has been reported that China and America have had an increase in both the divorce rates and consultations about divorce.
For those who were already undergoing the procedures of getting a divorce, it has become tougher. Courts aren’t open unless absolutely necessary, lawyers aren’t seeing their clients face to face, instead, they’re using video chat platforms like zoom, skype, etc. or talking to their clients via telephone calls.
Unfortunately, during the pandemic, things like divorce aren’t being taken as a priority, court dates are being pushed back, hearings are being done verbally via telephone or video calls. For all involved, it is a completely different situation than the usual process.
How can I survive living with the partner I am divorcing during COVID-19?
- Consider counseling. Sometimes, once you open up, you can hear the other person’s view, put your feelings across, and you might even find that it resolves the issues going on.
- Move in with a family member or a friend.
- Find a way of occupying yourself i.e. gardening, cooking, reading.
- Unfortunately, domestic abuse has significantly increased during COVID-19. If you are at risk of domestic abuse, please reach out to your friends and family – any professionals that can help. Your safety is important.